Feminist can't find husbands
I saw a video today about someone giving their views on this nypost article.
https://nypost.com/2019/09/25/women-are-struggling-to-find-men-who-make-as-much-money-as-they-do/
It basically is talking about how career women are having trouble finding economically attractive men. The complaint being that career ambitious women can't find men who are financially secure, or as driven as they are (and thus makes less money). This and other articles I've heard about is basically blaming men on becoming less driven and less successful then they used to be and also talk about how women naturally want to be with guys more successful then they are.
The thing that got me thinking was what the commentator said though. They mentioned that the reason these women can't find economically attractive men is that the ecnomically attractive men aren't attracted to them. This isn't a comment on appearance but rather not attracted to the life choices these women made. He was very careful to make clear he's not against women becoming CEO's and such and in fact is known to be all for that stuff. His point was that more successful and career driven men are busy and ambitious and aren't attracted to women that way because of two reasons. One it makes it almost impossible to actually spend time together, and the second reason being that they don't complement each other since they're both doing the same thing.
He also later opined that men has always been around the same success level, but women are noticing more now that they are in careers themselves. When women were in more traditional roles, pretty much any financially secure man seems to make more money then them by default. He also mentioned how men naturally go to more competitive fields where women tend to go into more social fields like teaching which isn't as career advancement heavy. Now that women are trying to go into the more competitive jobs they're realizing it more.
The reason I'm writing about it is that its actually touching on some of my experiences which helped clarify things for me. First, as I reflect more on my life I realize more and more how I go towards more feminine things compared to real men. For example, i play healer/support roles in video games and I'm in education. I did try to career advancement thing before and it stressed me out and happier not doing so. But that is more of a tangent onto what made me want to write this.
So I make online postings looking for men every now and then. I'm pretty patient in that I don't think I'll actually find a long term relationship type guy for probably 1.5 years from now when I'm much closer to being done with my feminization, but would be nice to have it earlier, so I try on my free time. Anyways, when I do the postings, I usually switch it up every now and then since I'm pretty open minded. One thing I usually lean away from is indicated my willingness to be a stay at home housewife. The reason for this is the negative cogitation of the "gold digger" type or lazy not wanting to work type or seeking sugar daddy that I hear about all the time. Though I'm perfectly willing to be a stay at home wife I'm also okay with working and do currently have a plan to pay for my surgeries/hormones and such.
Here is the interesting point though, when I do post the willingess to be a housewife, I get more responses. Till reading this article I kind of wrote those off as guys probably being more into the "kink" aspect of it and not really being serious about a LTR with that. But every time I move my postings into the housewife directions they do increase and thinking back on it, they usually are equally if not more serious. Thus I have to say that the commentator was probably right.
On a side note, the reason nothing came from any of those responses is because of either distance (even though I'm willing to relocate), them being more into the fetish then seeking real life, or they want me more passable before doing something, or just seeking hook ups. Sometimes, just compatibility as well. Though I am eager to find a man, I'm also not rushing into anything.
https://nypost.com/2019/09/25/women-are-struggling-to-find-men-who-make-as-much-money-as-they-do/
It basically is talking about how career women are having trouble finding economically attractive men. The complaint being that career ambitious women can't find men who are financially secure, or as driven as they are (and thus makes less money). This and other articles I've heard about is basically blaming men on becoming less driven and less successful then they used to be and also talk about how women naturally want to be with guys more successful then they are.
The thing that got me thinking was what the commentator said though. They mentioned that the reason these women can't find economically attractive men is that the ecnomically attractive men aren't attracted to them. This isn't a comment on appearance but rather not attracted to the life choices these women made. He was very careful to make clear he's not against women becoming CEO's and such and in fact is known to be all for that stuff. His point was that more successful and career driven men are busy and ambitious and aren't attracted to women that way because of two reasons. One it makes it almost impossible to actually spend time together, and the second reason being that they don't complement each other since they're both doing the same thing.
He also later opined that men has always been around the same success level, but women are noticing more now that they are in careers themselves. When women were in more traditional roles, pretty much any financially secure man seems to make more money then them by default. He also mentioned how men naturally go to more competitive fields where women tend to go into more social fields like teaching which isn't as career advancement heavy. Now that women are trying to go into the more competitive jobs they're realizing it more.
The reason I'm writing about it is that its actually touching on some of my experiences which helped clarify things for me. First, as I reflect more on my life I realize more and more how I go towards more feminine things compared to real men. For example, i play healer/support roles in video games and I'm in education. I did try to career advancement thing before and it stressed me out and happier not doing so. But that is more of a tangent onto what made me want to write this.
So I make online postings looking for men every now and then. I'm pretty patient in that I don't think I'll actually find a long term relationship type guy for probably 1.5 years from now when I'm much closer to being done with my feminization, but would be nice to have it earlier, so I try on my free time. Anyways, when I do the postings, I usually switch it up every now and then since I'm pretty open minded. One thing I usually lean away from is indicated my willingness to be a stay at home housewife. The reason for this is the negative cogitation of the "gold digger" type or lazy not wanting to work type or seeking sugar daddy that I hear about all the time. Though I'm perfectly willing to be a stay at home wife I'm also okay with working and do currently have a plan to pay for my surgeries/hormones and such.
Here is the interesting point though, when I do post the willingess to be a housewife, I get more responses. Till reading this article I kind of wrote those off as guys probably being more into the "kink" aspect of it and not really being serious about a LTR with that. But every time I move my postings into the housewife directions they do increase and thinking back on it, they usually are equally if not more serious. Thus I have to say that the commentator was probably right.
On a side note, the reason nothing came from any of those responses is because of either distance (even though I'm willing to relocate), them being more into the fetish then seeking real life, or they want me more passable before doing something, or just seeking hook ups. Sometimes, just compatibility as well. Though I am eager to find a man, I'm also not rushing into anything.
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