Contrast
I think I've only breifly talked about this in earlier posting but I think one of my biggest attractions both in my feminization and men i'm interested in is contrast. Like anything that makes us different. I think this is also one of the things that make me into gender roles and male superiority as well. Looking at just the gender role or male superiority aspect that creates some contrast. Men are better. Women are inferior. Gender roles, men provide, lead, protects the family. Women support, nurture, cares for the family. The man's wants come first, the woman puts the family first. It also kind of goes into the sexual side of things as well on the contrast front. I belief sex should be 100% about the man's pleasure and in some ways the contrast shows up there. For example, sex is about the man's pleasure regardless of the girl's thoughts and such. The guy might be rough, the girl passive and so on.
When it comes to the stuff I mentioned earlier there is more to it then just the contrast, I guess I was using that as a set up to highlight that it does pop up into different areas, but the contrast I'm talking about in this post is anything. I think the contrast here really hits what I said before about How i don't actually expect to get into a relationship with something into even 50% of the things I mention. I write more here to have a way to express myself and my thoughts and hopefully give others some pleasure in reading it. That is one of the changes i"m making in myself is putting others pleasures first after all. Also for a guy who is into me, i hope it gives them more insight into my thinking not to feel any form rejected but hopefuly how open minded I am. I'd hate to be with a guy who was not 100% comfotable with expressing what he likes and wants and would see myself a sa failure if that was the case.
Anyways to talk about some contrast, the obvious ones would be things like age, a guy much older or younger then myself. Both have there attractions. Older because the age gap helps add to his authority and helps objectify me, younger because it emphasizes a younger guy is already more manly then I am. Another easy contrast is location, me moving to the guy emphasizes my surroundings/culture changing where his stays stable, putting me in the more vulnerable position where is is in the more stable controlled position. Perhaps religious, requiring me to convert to there religion, especially if it has certain views of how woman should behave. I've even looked at things like muslim men in that regard. Or cultureal differences. For example asian and hispanic cultures usually have strong views about a woman's place. Racial is usually an obvious one, especially considering that I'm white I can see a nice racial conquring/reparations/payback aspect put into play there. The guy being intelligent and me being dumbed down is another exmaple of contrast. To be honest, I can think of things on contrast all day ong. Political differences is another example.
Another contrast that comes to mind suddenly is the being the only girl in a family. Rather that is in the form of multiple husbands more only sons. That contrast would always be obvious to me as I would be the only one doing women's chores/roles type stuff while the guys are doing there thing.
So one of the attractions of the contrast thing to me is the extra dynamic it adds. For one it makes me feel a little more like a conquered commodity. I think it adds to the feminization/me becoming a woman aspect. On the kink side I think it really adds some new venues to attract a guy. For example, he could use that to emphasise why his contrast is better then mine, obvious because i'm the submissive wife and not him. If he ever gets upset/angry at what I represent, he could actively take it out on me his wife as a healthy outlit.
Thats another aspect I will probably write more on at a later date. One of the reasons I actually am a fan of gender roles and such is that it goes with how men and woman naturally are and with a system that has been successful for long term relationships for many many years. I'm still learning to accept the female role in them, but it is something I believe in. Going on that, men are naturally more aggressive, prone to argue, fight and do conflict very quickly. I feel one of the roles of a good wife is to provide him a healthy outlit for those feelings be it sexual or physical or domestict discipline. So yes I see the need to be disciplined some times but I also know that sometimes it is needed both physically and sexually for the man to have a healthy outlit for those emotions rather then causing what might be ill advised issues when his interaction with other people. That is one of the reasons I don't quite consider it 'abuse' even though some people would. I'm getting off topic now so i'll end quickly. I guess the sum up, i've always been attracted to contrast and the more of it there is it always catches my attention.
When it comes to the stuff I mentioned earlier there is more to it then just the contrast, I guess I was using that as a set up to highlight that it does pop up into different areas, but the contrast I'm talking about in this post is anything. I think the contrast here really hits what I said before about How i don't actually expect to get into a relationship with something into even 50% of the things I mention. I write more here to have a way to express myself and my thoughts and hopefully give others some pleasure in reading it. That is one of the changes i"m making in myself is putting others pleasures first after all. Also for a guy who is into me, i hope it gives them more insight into my thinking not to feel any form rejected but hopefuly how open minded I am. I'd hate to be with a guy who was not 100% comfotable with expressing what he likes and wants and would see myself a sa failure if that was the case.
Anyways to talk about some contrast, the obvious ones would be things like age, a guy much older or younger then myself. Both have there attractions. Older because the age gap helps add to his authority and helps objectify me, younger because it emphasizes a younger guy is already more manly then I am. Another easy contrast is location, me moving to the guy emphasizes my surroundings/culture changing where his stays stable, putting me in the more vulnerable position where is is in the more stable controlled position. Perhaps religious, requiring me to convert to there religion, especially if it has certain views of how woman should behave. I've even looked at things like muslim men in that regard. Or cultureal differences. For example asian and hispanic cultures usually have strong views about a woman's place. Racial is usually an obvious one, especially considering that I'm white I can see a nice racial conquring/reparations/payback aspect put into play there. The guy being intelligent and me being dumbed down is another exmaple of contrast. To be honest, I can think of things on contrast all day ong. Political differences is another example.
Another contrast that comes to mind suddenly is the being the only girl in a family. Rather that is in the form of multiple husbands more only sons. That contrast would always be obvious to me as I would be the only one doing women's chores/roles type stuff while the guys are doing there thing.
So one of the attractions of the contrast thing to me is the extra dynamic it adds. For one it makes me feel a little more like a conquered commodity. I think it adds to the feminization/me becoming a woman aspect. On the kink side I think it really adds some new venues to attract a guy. For example, he could use that to emphasise why his contrast is better then mine, obvious because i'm the submissive wife and not him. If he ever gets upset/angry at what I represent, he could actively take it out on me his wife as a healthy outlit.
Thats another aspect I will probably write more on at a later date. One of the reasons I actually am a fan of gender roles and such is that it goes with how men and woman naturally are and with a system that has been successful for long term relationships for many many years. I'm still learning to accept the female role in them, but it is something I believe in. Going on that, men are naturally more aggressive, prone to argue, fight and do conflict very quickly. I feel one of the roles of a good wife is to provide him a healthy outlit for those feelings be it sexual or physical or domestict discipline. So yes I see the need to be disciplined some times but I also know that sometimes it is needed both physically and sexually for the man to have a healthy outlit for those emotions rather then causing what might be ill advised issues when his interaction with other people. That is one of the reasons I don't quite consider it 'abuse' even though some people would. I'm getting off topic now so i'll end quickly. I guess the sum up, i've always been attracted to contrast and the more of it there is it always catches my attention.
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